Needing validation from others

When we need validation from others..we attempt to mold ourselves in all that we are not. We cover the essence that we are with thoughts and ideas of what we want to be seen as but they are not who we truly are. As long as we need validation we do not know who we are.

Allowing the self to BE... without wanting to be seen in a certain way... free's us from mass mind conditioning.. of how and what we should be. It free's us from the bondage that we keep ourselves in.

When we need validation there is a constant tug of emotional war within ourselves. It creates a constant state of dependence on others and a feeling of emptiness and unfulfillable because we are seeking in others to fulfill our sense of self-identity. We attempt to allow others to shape us because we feel we need this in order to be loved and accepted.

When we are in a state of needing validation from others.. we create a space within us that can never be filled.

But when we are aligned with HEART we know that we will always shine all that we are..

When we are aligned with HEART we know that we must accept ourselves in the many stages we are at and others as well.. and we begin to understand why we are in those stages... but the heart would never NOT show us ALL that we ARE. The heart would not allow us to go seek any validation either.

Conditions of the mind keep us believing that we are this way or that way..or that we need to be a specific way.. but truly we are NOT nor are we the PERSONALITY that we project. Personality is a conditioning.. of our upbringing.. it is our personal vehicle but it can always be transformed.

Ask yourself.. are you only your body?
are you only your image?
are you only your ideas?
are you your personality?
are you only your talents?
do you need people to remind you of all that you are?
do you need people to show you that you are wanted?
Do you need anyone to know that you exist?

you are much more than that. And you need no one to validate the beautiful truth of all that you are.

You don't need others to remind you of all that you have accomplished or how talented you are. You don't need to prove to anyone all that you know or how great you are. Nor do you need to allow others to bring you down.. when they don't approve.

Life knows who you are. Life is all that you are.. and it is only your mind that can set limits to yourself and create ideas of what you need to be more or less like in order to be appreciated or accepted... or even respected.

The HEART will always accept you as you are.. but as long as you don't know all that you are.. will you accept yourself? Or will you always be seeking validation?